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        <title>America needs a reality check!</title>   
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        <p>The pop culture media outlets are all abuzz with the winner of the latest installment of &quot;America&#39;s Next Top Model&quot;.&#160; The articles abound with words like &quot;full-figured&quot;, &quot;plus-sized&quot; and &quot;big girl&quot;, but seriously, is this girl really any of those things???</p>

    
    
    
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<p><strong>HELL-OOOO</strong>!&#160;&#160;This girl is a size 8-10!!!&#160; Last time I went shopping, you couldn&#39;t find an 8-10 in the plus-sized department.&#160; In what world does that qualify as plus-sized or even full-figured?&#160; No wonder girls today have body image issues.</p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>Cooking with Gordon</title>   
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        <p><strong>My name is Alissa and I am a HUGE Gordon Ramsay fan.&#160; OK, 12 step moment over :-)</strong></p>
<p>But seriously, I truly respect his passion for food, his drive and his commitment to cooking local.</p>
<p>A few months back, I ordered 2 Gordon Ramsay cookbooks from Amazon UK.&#160; Yes, with the current exchange rate that means I paid way too much for these books, but I couldn&#39;t get them in the US and I love the recipes.&#160; I&#39;ve worked my way through so many of the recipes in the book and haven&#39;t been disappointed by a single one.&#160; As a matter of fact, my &quot;company&#39;s coming&quot; signature dish is from Gordon&#39;s <u>Fast Food</u> cookbook (which, BTW, recently became available in the US).</p>
<p>So, imagine how thrilled I was to received an email from Amazon UK telling me that Gordon not only has a new cookbook, but its filled with Healthy Recipes.&#160;&#160;<br /></p>

    
    
    
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<p>I was keenly interested in this book because I&#39;ve been looking for healthy recipes that use whole food and local ingredients.&#160; I am SO sick of the healthy cooking cookbooks&#160;filled with their less than healthy, chemically altered ingredients.&#160; In <u>Healthy Appetite</u>, you&#160;have recipes that&#160;don&#39;t compromise on taste or&#160;flavor.&#160; These recipes work&#160;for whatever&#160;life throws at you...&#160;a simple mid-week family meal to an elegant dinner party.</p>
<p>When I read the Introduction, I know that I had finally found what I had been looking for...</p>
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<p>&quot;Choosing the right ingredients is the core of healthy eating. It&#39;s not just a matter of selecting the leanest cuts of meat and reducing the amount of fat we consume, it helps to know which ingredients are at their peak at any given time, both in terms of flavour and nutrition.&#160; When it comes to putting a healthy dish together, balance and moderation are key. It&#39;s not simply a matter of putting the right types of food on a plate. How the food is cooked and seasoned and how the whole menu comes together are just as important.&#160; And I don&#39;t advocate cutting out butter and cream completely, just using a little here and there where it will really enhance the flavour of a dish.&quot;&#160;</p>
<p><br />The package arrived yesterday and I immediately began picking out the recipes I would cook this weekend.&#160; I promise to report back on my findings and share a recipe or two along the way.&#160;</p></blockquote>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>Hello World!</title>   
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        <p>I&#39;m no longer homeless and no longer disconnected from the rest of the world!!&#160; </p>
<p>Its quite unnerving in this modern age to be with TV or Internet for an extended period of time.&#160; I know, I&#39;m lucky that I have a nice home to live in and access to satellite TV and the Internet, but to suddenly be without is a bit isolating.&#160; At my lowest point, I sat outside a closed Starbucks with my laptop so that I could check email with my HotSpot account.</p>
<p>There&#39;s still lots of boxes to unpack and lots of stuff to write about.&#160; But, for now, it just feels good to know that I am connected once again!</p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>There . . . and Back Again</title>   
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        <p>Matt and I have returned from our big family gay-cation, minus some earrings I bought for Mother&#39;s Day and a library book that mysteriously disappeared.</p>
<p>&#160;</p>
<p>On <br />Thursday, May 1, we flew to Vegas on Southwest. Upo0n arrival, we checked in at The Plams, an off-Strip property that we had seen on a segment of Great Hotels on The Travel Channel. The Palms definitely lived up to its billing as a hip hotel for the ytoung and hot. I declare I have not seen that many hot, shirtless studs in all my life. It was a guidofest for sure. </p>
<p>We applied the $20 dollar trick, which got us an upgrade from a standard room to a 1, 000 sq. ft luxury suite.</p>
<p>&#160;</p>

    
    
    
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<p>&#160;</p>

    
    
    
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<p>We had dinner at N9ne Steakhouse, which served us incredibly tender steaks that melted in our mouths despite having been overdone.</p>
<p>&#160;</p>
<p>The next day, Matt&#39;s parents arrvied and all four of drove off in a rented SUV to the Grand Canyon, a 5-hour drive away. </p>
<p>&#160;</p>

    
    
    
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<p>&#160;</p>

    
    
    
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<div class="content">For some reason, about two years ago, airlines stopped letting me get a boarding pass online, making me waste time at the airport desk AND denying me first shot at a decent seat. I am a native-born American with a common Anglo-Saxon name, and am as far from being a terrorist as can be. I mostly fly Southwest, so I joined their useless Rapid Rewards frequent flier club, thinking that might distinguish me from some Abu bin Jihad who might be using my name as a pseudonym. For a while that worked, but just now my partner did the online check-in for our flight to Vegas tomorrow, and AGAIN I&#39;ve been denied a boarding pass. So now I have to wait in line and deal with the morons at the desk, while my partner sashays to the Promised Land (aka, the secure area).<br /><br />I&#39;ve been through the TSA Web site that is supposed to redress this issue, with no results.<br /><br />I need a drink. <br /><br />Maybe if I eat some bacon, chug a cocktail, and kiss a dude&#160;in front of&#160;the security&#160;desk, the TSA mouthbreathers&#160;might get it through their excessively thick&#160;skulls that I am not an member of the Al Qaeda vanguard. On the other hand, I <u>might </u>be a threat, because every time I have to endure the moronic check-in and security process run by smug chimps with a badge and&#160;a smidgen of&#160;authorit<span style="FONT-STYLE: italic">ah</span>, I get the urge to start strangling the uniformed high-school dropouts who enjoy making the airline experience as annoyingly inconvenient as possible.</div>
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        <title>Intolerant free speech upheld by the courts</title>   
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        <p><strong><em>To be honest, I&#39;m struggling with this situation in a local school.&#160; I support free speech and love our Constitution, but somehow I think the opportunity to teach our children tolerance and understanding&#160;of those who are different was lost in the rush to the courthouse.&#160;</em></strong></p>
<h1 class="story_headline">Court OKs anti-gay T-shirt</h1>
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<div class="story_subhead">Civil case continues to determine speech limits
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<div class="byline">By Tim Waldorf <a href="mailto:twaldorf@scn1.com">twaldorf@scn1.com</a></div>
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<p>The third time was the charm for a Neuqua Valley High School student who wants to express his sentiments on homosexuality by wearing a &quot;Be Happy, Not Gay&quot; T-shirt to class. </p>
<p>Neuqua sophomore Alex Nuxoll had twice filed for an injunction that would suspend the school&#39;s policy that prevents him from wearing the T-shirt. 
<p>And twice courts had denied that request. </p>
<p>But on Wednesday the U.S. Court of Appeals for the 7th Circuit reversed the lower courts&#39; rulings against Nuxoll, saying the district court must order Neuqua to suspend its ban on the shirt while the civil rights lawsuit filed by Nuxoll and Neuqua grad Heidi Zamecnik proceeds. 
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<p>In issuing this reversal, though, the court basically upheld the validity of the school&#39;s rule forbidding derogatory comments, oral or written, that refer to race, ethnicity, religion, gender, sexual orientation, or disability. </p>
<p>&quot;High school students are not adults, schools are not public meeting halls, children are in school to be taught by adults rather than to practice attacking each other with wounding words, and school authorities have a protective relationship and responsibility to all the students,&quot; states the court&#39;s opinion, authored by Judge Richard Posner. &quot;Because of that relationship and responsibility, we are concerned that if the rule is invalidated the school will be placed on a razor&#39;s edge, where if it bans offensive comments it is sued for violating free speech and if it fails to protect students from offensive comments by other students it is sued for violating laws against harassment.&quot; 
<p>That said, the court determined that the T-shirt did not break the rule it upheld, and it granted Nuxoll&#39;s request for a temporary injunction allowing him to wear it. 
<p>&quot;&#39;Be Happy, Not Gay&#39; is only tepidly negative; &#39;derogatory&#39; or &#39;demeaning&#39; seems too strong a characterization,&quot; Posner wrote. &quot;As one would expect in a school the size of Neuqua Valley High School, there have been incidents of harassment of homosexual students. But it is highly speculative that allowing the plaintiff to wear a T-shirt that says &#39;Be Happy, Not Gay&#39; would have even a slight tendency to provoke such incidents, or for that matter to poison the educational atmosphere.&quot; 
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<p>The court&#39;s ruling came two days before today&#39;s annual Day of Silence, during which some students choose not to talk throughout the school day unless doing so interferes with their grades. Sponsored by the school&#39;s Gay/Straight Alliance, the day is intended to &quot;echo&quot; the silence that students who are gay face all the time. During the Day of Silence, students often wear written messages on shirts, buttons and stickers showing their support of peers who are gay. </p>
<p>This case arose two years ago when Zamecnik, then a junior at Neuqua, decided to wear her own homemade T-shirt expressing her sentiments on homosexuality. She wore it the day after the Day of Silence, which some call the Day of Truth. 
<p>The shirt said &quot;My Day of Silence, Straight Alliance&quot; on the front and &quot;Be Happy, Not Gay&quot; on the back. According to the federal lawsuit Zamecnik filed against Indian Prairie District 204&#39;s board and various district and school administrators, she was told she had to remove the shirt or leave school because some students and staff found it offensive. 
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<p>Attorney Jack Canna defended Indian Prairie School District 204 against the lawsuit. Canna said that while the district would have preferred to have prevailed, he was not disappointed by the broader legal reasoning expressed in the court&#39;s opinion. Neuqua&#39;s rule was deemed valid and enforceable, and the ruling also acknowledged &quot;the authority of the schools to control demeaning and negative speech, one kid against another,&quot; as well as &quot;concerns about the atmosphere for learning,&quot; he said. </p>
<p>&quot;It&#39;s a difficult road for these school districts and school administrators to tread,&quot; he said. &quot;It&#39;s hard to know which direction to go, and I think some of the ruling here helps us in that regard.&quot; 
<p>Canna also noted Nuxoll&#39;s temporary injunction request was expedited, which he said didn&#39;t leave the district with enough of an opportunity to present its side of the story. He anticipates it will get that opportunity as the students&#39; civil rights lawsuit advances. 
<p>&quot;I think we&#39;re more concerned with presenting over the long haul the reason why District 204 and other districts have these policies,&quot; Canna said. &quot;What is really happening in the buildings? Why it is important from an education standpoint to address civility and demeanor and the atmosphere of the building?&quot; 
<p>Nuxoll&#39;s parents referred a request for comments to their legal counsel. 
<p>Representing Nuxoll is attorney Nathan Kellum of the Alliance Defense Fund, a conservative Christian litigation group. 
<p>&quot;We are very pleased with the result because finally Alex will be given an opportunity to share his viewpoint on the topic of homosexual behavior,&quot; Kellum said. 
<p>However, Kellum also said he believes the question lingers of how far Neuqua can and will go to curb negative comments about homosexual conduct. 
<p>&quot;(Alex) wants to be able to make references to scripture in supporting his reasoning that homosexual behavior does not lead to happiness, and there&#39;s a very big question as to whether he would be allowed to do that, and I think that that&#39;s something that&#39;s going to have to be flushed out by the remainder of the litigation,&quot; Kellum said. 
<p>The court recognized these desires in its ruling, and predicted that this temporary injunction will not bring an end to the students&#39; overarching civil rights lawsuit. 
<p>&quot;(Nuxoll) will press for a broader injunction as permanent relief, though one that will fall short of permitting him to use fighting words in his fight against homosexuality, for he has conceded that the school can ban fighting words,&quot; Ponzer said. &quot;The district judge will be required to strike a careful balance between the limited constitutional right of a high school student to campaign inside the school against the sexual orientation of other students and the school&#39;s interest in maintaining an atmosphere in which students are not distracted from their studies by wrenching debates over issues of personal identity.&quot;</p></p></p></p></p></p></p></p></p></p></p></p></p></p></p></p></p></p></p></p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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