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        <p>The SF Chronicle was at the courthouse for the&#160;California Supreme Court&#160;ruling today for reactions. You can spot San Francisco City Hall, where all of this began four years ago, kitty-corner in the background.<div>
    
    
    

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        <title>America needs a reality check!</title>   
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        <p>The pop culture media outlets are all abuzz with the winner of the latest installment of &quot;America&#39;s Next Top Model&quot;.&#160; The articles abound with words like &quot;full-figured&quot;, &quot;plus-sized&quot; and &quot;big girl&quot;, but seriously, is this girl really any of those things???</p>

    
    
    
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<p><strong>HELL-OOOO</strong>!&#160;&#160;This girl is a size 8-10!!!&#160; Last time I went shopping, you couldn&#39;t find an 8-10 in the plus-sized department.&#160; In what world does that qualify as plus-sized or even full-figured?&#160; No wonder girls today have body image issues.</p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <p><strong>My name is Alissa and I am a HUGE Gordon Ramsay fan.&#160; OK, 12 step moment over :-)</strong></p>
<p>But seriously, I truly respect his passion for food, his drive and his commitment to cooking local.</p>
<p>A few months back, I ordered 2 Gordon Ramsay cookbooks from Amazon UK.&#160; Yes, with the current exchange rate that means I paid way too much for these books, but I couldn&#39;t get them in the US and I love the recipes.&#160; I&#39;ve worked my way through so many of the recipes in the book and haven&#39;t been disappointed by a single one.&#160; As a matter of fact, my &quot;company&#39;s coming&quot; signature dish is from Gordon&#39;s <u>Fast Food</u> cookbook (which, BTW, recently became available in the US).</p>
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<p>I was keenly interested in this book because I&#39;ve been looking for healthy recipes that use whole food and local ingredients.&#160; I am SO sick of the healthy cooking cookbooks&#160;filled with their less than healthy, chemically altered ingredients.&#160; In <u>Healthy Appetite</u>, you&#160;have recipes that&#160;don&#39;t compromise on taste or&#160;flavor.&#160; These recipes work&#160;for whatever&#160;life throws at you...&#160;a simple mid-week family meal to an elegant dinner party.</p>
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<p>&quot;Choosing the right ingredients is the core of healthy eating. It&#39;s not just a matter of selecting the leanest cuts of meat and reducing the amount of fat we consume, it helps to know which ingredients are at their peak at any given time, both in terms of flavour and nutrition.&#160; When it comes to putting a healthy dish together, balance and moderation are key. It&#39;s not simply a matter of putting the right types of food on a plate. How the food is cooked and seasoned and how the whole menu comes together are just as important.&#160; And I don&#39;t advocate cutting out butter and cream completely, just using a little here and there where it will really enhance the flavour of a dish.&quot;&#160;</p>
<p><br />The package arrived yesterday and I immediately began picking out the recipes I would cook this weekend.&#160; I promise to report back on my findings and share a recipe or two along the way.&#160;</p></blockquote>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>EliteXC: Renegade</title>   
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        <p><strong>Released:</strong> May 13, 2008<br />*****<br />It´s controlled violence, trained violence, not designed to hurt the
other person, but to make them submit. The referee is involved to
ensure a clean fight. A cage doctor is on hand to tend to the injuries.
I don´t think there´s anything quite like MMA in any other sport.
Football comes closest, but even the most manly of American sports
pales in comparison. Shoulder pads, cleats, helmets…none of these
fighters have anything of the sort. There´s a primal, base animal
emotion to what we´re watching.<br />*****<a href="http://www.dvdtown.com/reviews/elitexc-renegade/5903"><em><strong><br />EliteXC: Renegade</strong></em></a> DVD Review<br /> </p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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 <div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px; "><div>Our office was featured last week as one of <a href="http://valleywag.com/389658/">Valleywag&#39;s 10 best workspaces</a> and a mention of our bike garage right before&#160;Bike to Work Day gave <a href="http://beau.vox.com/">Beau</a> an idea. Last friday morning Beau had that smile he gets whenever he comes up with something really good (he does it quite a lot) and I knew this was going to be good.&#160;</div><div><br /></div><div>So many people here in the Six Apart office bike, walk or ride transit (we don&#39;t even have parking) already, I&#39;d barely noticed the Bike to Work Day was coming up. Beau didn&#39;t need to convince anyone that we as should do something together as a company to support Bike to Work Day, so we&#39;ll be doing something special here on Vox along with <a href="http://everything.typepad.com/blog/2008/05/six-apart-suppo.html">TypePad</a>. For folks in San Francisco, we&#39;ll be handing out snacks and drinks to cyclists out front. .&#160;</div><div><br /></div><div>Beau is going another step further though, offering to donate $10 to AIDS/LifeCycle for everyone in the office who rides a bike to work on Thursday. This will be the third time I will be riding the 7 day, 545 mile fundraiser and this year <a href="http://abain.vox.com/">Alex</a> and <a href="http://blogdome.vox.com/">Mike</a> are joining me as first time riders.</div><div><br /></div><div>You can help us too with a donation of support to (me) <a href="http://www.aidslifecycle.org/2008">Jamison (rider 2008)</a>, <a href="http://www.aidslifecycle.org/2004">Alex (rider 2004)</a>, and <a href="http://www.aidslifecycle.org/2050">Mike (rider 2050)</a>.</div><div><br /></div><div>And if you&#39;re in San Francisco, swing by Six Apart HQ thursday morning for snacks on your way to work. We&#39;re located at <a href="http://maps.google.com/maps?f=q&amp;hl=en&amp;geocode=&amp;q=548+4th+St,+San+Francisco,+CA+94107&amp;sll=37.0625,-95.677068&amp;sspn=33.626896,61.962891&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;ll=37.780586,-122.397416&amp;spn=0.008191,0.015128&amp;z=16&amp;iwloc=addr">548 Fourth Street</a>, midway between Bryant and Brannan on the way towards the Caltrain station.</div></span></div>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>Poor Trentie</title>   
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        <p>What have I done! </p>
<p>Checking out the equality score card to find out if GLBT citizens in my state are second class citizens, I got a shock (not a huge one...but still...)</p>
<p>I have taken you, my Trentie,&#160;from a state with a 4.0 score (out of six) to one of the three worst states in the union with a score of 0.5 Ohio is in the company of only Idaho &amp; Mississippi...we&#39;re behind Alabama fer Buddha&#39;s sake!</p>
<p>How does your state fare?</p>
<p><a href="http://www.equalitygiving.org/States-of-Equality-and-Gay-Rights-Scorecard">http://www.equalitygiving.org/States-of-Equality-and-Gay-Rights-Scorecard</a></p>
<p>(Oh, and it doesn&#39;t matter if you pick the state I actually took him from: Massachusettes or the state of his birth: Maine...both have that 4.0 score).</p>
<p>Sigh...</p>
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<p>Thanks to Heather who had this on her Vox &amp; it made me larf so hard...since we live it every morning...minus the bat, though I do have recurring headaches lately, hmmm.</p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>Enchanted (2007)</title>   
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<div style="text-align: left"><strong>Released:</strong> November 21, 2007<br /><strong>Director:</strong> Kevin Lima<br />*****<br />Every once in a while, a movie comes along which flips convention on its head.&#160; It takes what we know, contorts it into something else and gives us a fresh experience.&#160; Just at a time when Disney films had become cliche, <em>Enchanted </em>came along, made fun of every tradition and allowed us to believe again, if only for a couple of hours.&#160; Princess-to-be Giselle (Amy Adams) is transported to modern day New York courtesy of her evil step-mother-to-be, Narissa (Susan Sarandon).&#160; There, she meets lawyer Robert (Patrick Dempsey), a man who has all but given up on the things Giselle believes in: true love forever and ever.&#160; When Prince Edward (James Marsden) braves the mean New York streets to find his beloved, a new world awaits him.&#160; And possibly a new love.<br /><br />What <em>Enchanted </em>does so well is blend tried and true Disney ideas-lavish production numbers, animals flocking to a princess, hopelessly naive characters, an evil queen-and makes fun of them without actually making fun of them.&#160; First and foremost is Amy Adams as Giselle, quite possibly the best bit of acting from a lead actress in 2007.&#160; She is completely believable at every turn, from not knowing what a date is to taking matters into her own hands at the end.&#160; There is a naivety in everything she does, yet she isn&#39;t a stupid character.&#160; Marsden, in another of his broad and pompous characters, overacts, sometimes quite outrageously so.&#160; But we believe his personae based on what Adams brings to the table beforehand.<br /><br />If there is a weak link, it is Robert, his daughter Morgan and girlfriend Nancy.&#160; They are plot contrivances and feel like afterthoughts in most scenes.&#160; Morgan especially is thrown in for apparently no good reason.&#160; She has no critical part in the narrative nor does she appear on screen in the climactic finale.&#160; Nancy, for her part, isn&#39;t given anything of substance to do, though her eventual fate jives nearly perfectly with what we know of her.<br /><br />The finale, featuring Susan Sarandon in full diva mode, rings just a bit hollow and sped up, as if a certain running time had to be met instead of a naturally flowing story.&#160; It&#39;s not enough to derail <em>Enchanted</em>, a story about learning to be critical, but not too critical as to miss what is staring you in the face.&#160; A bit of a hammy message to be sure, but also an endearing one in true Disney style.&#160; <br /></div></div><div style="text-align: center"> </div>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>Think your neighbors are weird...</title>   
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        <p>Well, have I got a story for you. There&#39;s no love lost between us and our neighbors on the one side (we like the other side fine)...the ones of which I speak I have complained about here before; they have&#160;the beagle who never shuts up. Endeavoring to be the good Buddhist, I smile and wave at them when I see them...but that may be a little more difficult from now on.</p>
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<p>Those windows look out over about five feet of yard...then a low wooden fence...then about five feet of their yard. I was working at the counter there by the sink. As I said it was raining out, so the light was on in the kitchen. </p>
<p>I saw the neighbor&#39;s 12-ish year old son walk by with his jackey over his head...I didn&#39;t think anything of it. They usually go to church. (Or I should say they usually dress up on Sunday mornings, I&#39;m assuming the destination) </p>
<p>I often wonder what they think of us sometimes dancing in the kitchen...smooching over the sink...I know they can see in and they know we are a couple...So a few moments later, I look up from veggie chopping and the kid is back. He has his hand at his belt buckle. I think, &quot;Oh no, is he going to scratch himself?&quot;</p>
<p>Nope. He whipped it out and peed. Right there. Between the houses. Not only in full view of our lighted windows at 10 a.m. but with nothing but about forty feet of clear yard between him and the road...I fled.</p>
<p>I yelled, &quot;Oh my god!&quot; </p>
<p>Trent who was doing laundry in the basement said, &quot;What?&quot;</p>
<p>I repeated, &quot;Oh my god! You will never believe waht I just saw.&quot;</p>
<p>&quot;One of the neighbors naked?&quot; </p>
<p>I kid you not, he actually said that. But he was just thinking of the most outrageous thing he could...and I had to tell him he was pretty much right on target.</p>
<p>Maybe that&#39;s why we have a patch of dead grass in the back...</p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>Before the Devil Knows You&#39;re Dead (2007)</title>   
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</div><strong></p><p>Released:</strong> October 12, 2007 (New York Film Festival)<br /><strong>Director:</strong> Sidney Lumet<br />*****<br /><em>Before the Devil Knows You&#39;re Dead </em>is like the ball of yarn a cat plays with.&#160; As long as both ends are tucked in and not pulled, the ball of yarn remains relatively intact.&#160; But pull a stray piece and, soon afterward, the entire thing becomes undone.&#160; Such is the case here.&#160; When brothers Hank and Andy (Ethan Hawke, Philip Seymour Hoffman) decide to knock over their parents jewelry store because both are in desperate need of money, they call it a victimless crime.&#160; The robbery goes horribly wrong, resulting in the fragile lives the family has created to come shattering apart, making each person do things they wouldn&#39;t normally do.&#160; </p><p>With lesser actors, director Sidney Lumet&#39;s latest outing would have rung hollow, as if the script was imposing a set of character traits on a group of actors unable to inhabit the parts.&#160; Without muttering a line of dialogue, though, we know each of the people on screen, if only in the broad sense.&#160; Hawke, as Hank, with his moppy, unkempt hair is a man at the end of his rope while brother Andy carries himself with dignity and class, despite being in well over his head as well.&#160; Then there&#39;s Andy&#39;s wife Gina (Marisa Tomei).&#160; We know her, too.&#160; She is upper class, with Andy only for the money and not real love.&#160; It is these people, and to a lesser extent Albert Finney and Rosemary Harris as the parents, we want to shake, rattle and stir.&#160; In the great pantheon of bad movie ideas, robbing your own parents store is near the top of the list.</p><p>What the film doesn&#39;t tell us-at least not all at once-is why they do it.&#160; Instead of being a simple whodunit story, the script throws that question out of the window at the outset.&#160; We know who it is.&#160; But why?&#160; That&#39;s the great mystery.&#160; And once those answers come, in the form of segments devoted to each character leading up to and after the robbery, they are whole people.&#160; Not terribly brilliant people, but complete.&#160; Even at this point the film doesn&#39;t fade to black, allowing us to ruminate on what they have done.&#160; We are forced to follow them to their ultimate destruction.&#160; Remember that yarn?&#160; It is pulled to such lengths there is no ball anymore, just a mess of tangles and waste.</p><p>Lumet gets perhaps the best work out of Hawke since <em>Dead Poet&#39;s Society</em>, as he is continually forced to carry the emotional burden of the film.&#160; Perhaps a bit overreaching in some scenes, he isn&#39;t strictly a bad person, just caught up in events he can&#39;t do anything about, trying to be everything to everybody.&#160; Hoffman is more restrained, lashing out only at the end.&#160; Tomei is wonderfully understated, knowing full well hers is a supporting part and not where the camera is going to be focused for any prolonged period of time.&#160; A minor gripe: the slam cuts which shift the perspective of the film come on suddenly, just as we&#39;re becoming comfortable with what we&#39;re seeing.&#160; Maybe that&#39;s the point, though.&#160; To make sure we&#39;re not comfortable watching a group of people dig their own graves.<br /></p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>Expelled: No Intelligence Allowed (2008)</title>   
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        <p><strong>Released:</strong> April 18, 2008<br /><strong>Director:</strong> Nathan Frankowski<br />*****<br />As hosted by Ben Stein, &quot;Expelled: No Intelligence Allowed&quot; purports to
tell the story of why the creationism theory is &quot;under attack.&quot; Quite
simply, as we´re told in the film, the upper levels of scientific
academia are slavishly attached to evolution and Darwin, rejecting any
and all contrary opinions. Several professors and scientists recount
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mentioning intelligent design.<br />*****<br /><a href="http://www.dvdtown.com/news/theatrical-review-of-expelled-no-intelligence-allowed/5522"><strong><em>Expelled: No Intelligence Allowed</em></strong></a> Review<br /> </p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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